1. Whether you like it or not, whether you accept this fact or not, there is a touch and hand of God upon your life now to deliver people, set the captives free, and destroy the work of the enemy, and anti-marital settlement in your family.
God is more than capable to use in the future, for His glory and work.
2. You don't hate to fail, you react badly to failure when you do.
In essence, the Lord said and asked you to pray, and through the power of your prayers, destroy every stronghold and weakness in you that want you to see yourself as a failure, unfit, and disappointed, maritally.
You know what I am talking about ' there is a voice that visits your thought randomly or maybe often now that reminds you are not capable or will fail maritally? That voice, that thing must die in you.
3. A plan has been perfected ( perhaps by your occultic cousin or a well-known household enemy) to fire an evil arrow, the arrow of infirmity into her body and life----only you can save her either by divine direction or via this warning, or your prayers.
Pray for her now and warn her to be spiritually vigilant and pray and that is if she won't discard your warnings.
4. I see unmerited, undeserved favor that will catapult you above and ahead those who are ahead of you.
Bless you.
Jesus is Lord.