1. Even though the strong man that's been troubling the destinies of your lineage/family has been destroyed your employment status or what's going on in your life is better remain hidden and secret.
2. What has the dead got to do with the living? You must cry out and break every bond,communication between you and the dead.
3. You'd make a great sacrifice,do a great work for the lord( God )and he would reward you greatly for it, sooner or later.
4. Like the saying goes; the patient dog eats the fattest bone. Meaning , I see provocation or little disappointment (actually a blessing in disguise) if you'd embrace humility and patient the lord would use it to connect you.
5. Hmmm.. Truly, the lord don't reason nor see from mortal man's perspective. He said, you have a goal,target you've set to meet on behalf of your wife or family but I have something better,bigger and more rewarding for you,son!. Yes, the lord want to establish you and your family,and while on the hunt for a better life for your family or wife the lord want to connect you. So, I would say, keep the fire burning and embrace whatever the lord brings your way dont insist on what you want nor your target.
6. Desist from these practice,tradition or event as the lord frown at it.
7. Don't take further step on that thing until you hear from the lord. Yes, don't ! Don't !! and don't !!! Until the lord say, move. I know you've made up your mind about these and none can change your mind but don't move nor go head as doing so might be dangerous.
Bless you.