1. Do not directly, indirectly, or, consciously or unconscious enter into an agreement or deal with anybody especially within your family circle or father's house so as to avoid unnecessary trouble and chaos on your way in this New Year. 
2. I see you shut your door against the person, and against any possible compromise or reconciliation. 
3. Your wife must be strong and must refuse to pay any form of attention against the mockery of her self or business, and even of her family. 
This is a blessing in disguise as far as God is concern. 
4. Be appreciative of good gesture but some gift is not just worth it after all. 
5. I just have to congratulate you for this deliverance being the early days of the year. 
You see, that wasn't just a woman from your village, she's a strong man that was assigned and sent into your home from your father' house to torment, attack, invade, afflict, and trouble your home and family as a whole, and its been working against and within your home for 5 good years, monitoring your home too? Wow! 
But to God be the glory it didn't enter into the nee year with you and your family. God has aborted its mission. 
Congratulations, once again. 
Thank you, Jesus!
Bless you.