[seekinghim1]

hello minister please help me with this dream which has again my cousin from previous dreams in it;


In the dream I am at an unfamiliar place with my sister, seems to be an airport.  We are waiting for my cousin to pick us up and I am thinking that as usual he will be late because he takes his time in all things.  However my sister points to the distance and says "here he comes".  im surprised as I expected him to be later-he is driving my mothers car coming to pick us up.  when he arrives the car has now changed into a van.  When I go in im surprised to see about 4 or 5 little children seated and belted in the back.  I sit with them and as we are driving I am fascinated with the scenery and wildlife around us.  I notice white haired monkeys and whales and cannot believe they live in our area.
Later I am in a room with my cousin and I notice he has a box full of things he has purchased.  I notice the things he has brought are all for his baby and not for the other children in his care.  It is not a bad thing to me in the dream however I see that his focus is on his baby and not the others.

[ebankole]

This is his personality, you can change him,take anything away from him but there is just one thing you can't take away from him.... His "self-centred-ness".

He's quite self-centred "


Ask why the lord would reviewed this revelation?

Hmmm I don't think such person can be totally trusted, do business with, and might have issues with him sharing things....together....





Bless u

[seekinghim1]

This is his personality, you can change him,take anything away from him but there is just one thing you can't take away from him.... His "self-centred-ness".

He's quite self-centred "


Ask why the lord would reviewed this revelation?

Hmmm I don't think such person can be totally trusted, do business with, and might have issues with him sharing things....together....


Hi Minister thanks for your thoughts - would this dream be referring to my actual cousin? Because in real life this particular cousin is totally opposite he is hardworking and such a gentleman or is this dream symbolic of someone else similar to my cousin that hasn't been revealed to me yet?

[ebankole]

Yes him.
But it's doesn't mean that he's bad person. Not at all.

It's called " his within, hidden personality ".

Mind you the word " self-centred " in the case simply means, personal interest "

You will know the real person in a man when things isn't go his way or challenges over shadows him.

This isn't my thoughts but lord message, according to your revelation.

Bless u

[seekinghim1]

Yes him.
But it's doesn't mean that he's bad person. Not at all.

It's called " his within, hidden personality ".

Mind you the word " self-centred " in the case simply means, personal interest "

You will know the real person in a man when things isn't go his way or challenges over shadows him.

This isn't my thoughts but lord message, according to your revelation.


Ok thank you, Im feeling a bit confused but will pray more on it, I've just seen this cousin put his whole life on hold for his family and wife over the years as well as support them being the only breadwinner.....so I will be praying as to why the lord would reveal something like this, Iv also watched him stand in prayer for over 9 years for a child which finally came so its a really strange dream to me.  Thank you.

Bless u

[ebankole]

Hmmmm
I pray the lord to increase you in wisdom and spiritual insight.


Let me break it down ;


This was the dream, and I quote, and please take note of the bolded parts as I analyse each sentence.


In the dream I am at an unfamiliar place with my sister, seems to be an airport.  We are waiting for my cousin to pick us up and I am thinking that as usual he will be late because he takes his time in all things.  However my sister points to the distance and says "here he comes".  im surprised as I expected him to be later-he is driving my mothers car coming to pick us up.  when he arrives the car has now changed into a van.  When I go in im surprised to see about 4 or 5 little children seated and belted in the back.  I sit with them and as we are driving I am fascinated with the scenery and wildlife around us.  I notice white haired monkeys and whales and cannot believe they live in our area.
Later I am in a room with my cousin and I notice he has a box full of things he has purchased.  I notice the things he has brought are all for his baby and not for the other children in his care. It is not a bad thing to me in the dream however I see that his focus is on his baby and not the others.


Now note the words/sentence "his...focus..on...baby not others..?

Now that's where the/my word " self-centred emanated from.

You must understand that he a family man who who derive joy in making himself happy by helping, uplifting those around him, especially his family.

He's quite sensitive and active when it comes to his or family affair, isn't that a good self-centred-ness?

That being said, when this turn around and life confront him with serious challenges be warned that he'd rather concentrate on his "own" family(kids/wife) rather than that of his parents.

Because that's his personality, and as generous and active as he's amidst his extended family? So also he's, and will when things don't go well for him as he'll rather give is all( at this period) to his own family and hence the opposite aspect of his " self-centred-ness" will come to play. Which, anyway you might not or anyone for that matter, consider evil or bad as the case maybe hence you statement in that dream...and I quote "., ..... It is not a bad thing to me in the dream however I see that his focus is on his baby and not the others.


Mind you this was what I wrote, ..and I quote again

This is his personality, you can change him,take anything away from him but there is just one thing you can't take away from him.... His "self-centred-ness".

He's quite self-centred "


Ask why the lord would reviewed this revelation?

Hmmm I don't think such person can be totally trusted, do business with, and might have issues with him sharing things....together....

Note the word totally..which means, not totally reliable "
I know he's seems truth worthy and reliable but don't u think that he's human, one that can disappoint just like any other person whether the person is good or bad? Simply put, trust none God.


Now talking about business and why I wrote, "can't be totally trusted or might have issues with him doing business together. Simply put, he's a kind of person who belief in leading and being in control of whatever he wants to do or does hence, indeed he might be a difficult person to engage in join business with because...when challenges arise this traits will manifest...and I quote ;

Later I am in a room with my cousin and I notice he has a box full of things he has purchased.  I notice the things he has brought are all for his baby and not for the other children in his care.  It is not a bad thing to me in the dream however I see that his focus is on his baby and not the others.


Hmmm I hope you understand better now?

Maybe because at time, pastor bankole speak in parable or use short words hence misinterpreted his message.


Bless u

[seekinghim1]

Hmmmm
I pray the lord to increase you in wisdom and spiritual insight.


Let me break it down ;


This was the dream, and I quote, and please take note of the bolded parts as I analyse each sentence.


In the dream I am at an unfamiliar place with my sister, seems to be an airport.  We are waiting for my cousin to pick us up and I am thinking that as usual he will be late because he takes his time in all things.  However my sister points to the distance and says "here he comes".  im surprised as I expected him to be later-he is driving my mothers car coming to pick us up.  when he arrives the car has now changed into a van.  When I go in im surprised to see about 4 or 5 little children seated and belted in the back.  I sit with them and as we are driving I am fascinated with the scenery and wildlife around us.  I notice white haired monkeys and whales and cannot believe they live in our area.
Later I am in a room with my cousin and I notice he has a box full of things he has purchased.  I notice the things he has brought are all for his baby and not for the other children in his care. It is not a bad thing to me in the dream however I see that his focus is on his baby and not the others.


Now note the words/sentence "his...focus..on...baby not others..?

Now that's where the/my word " self-centred emanated from.

You must understand that he a family man who who derive joy in making himself happy by helping, uplifting those around him, especially his family.

He's quite sensitive and active when it comes to his or family affair, isn't that a good self-centred-ness?

That being said, when this turn around and life confront him with serious challenges be warned that he'd rather concentrate on his "own" family(kids/wife) rather than that of his parents.

Because that's his personality, and as generous and active as he's amidst his extended family? So also he's, and will when things don't go well for him as he'll rather give is all( at this period) to his own family and hence the opposite aspect of his " self-centred-ness" will come to play. Which, anyway you might not or anyone for that matter, consider evil or bad as the case maybe hence you statement in that dream...and I quote "., ..... It is not a bad thing to me in the dream however I see that his focus is on his baby and not the others.


Mind you this was what I wrote, ..and I quote again

This is his personality, you can change him,take anything away from him but there is just one thing you can't take away from him.... His "self-centred-ness".

He's quite self-centred "


Ask why the lord would reviewed this revelation?

Hmmm I don't think such person can be totally trusted, do business with, and might have issues with him sharing things....together....

Note the word totally..which means, not totally reliable "
I know he's seems truth worthy and reliable but don't u think that he's human, one that can disappoint just like any other person whether the person is good or bad? Simply put, trust none God.


Now talking about business and why I wrote, "can't be totally trusted or might have issues with him doing business together. Simply put, he's a kind of person who belief in leading and being in control of whatever he wants to do or does hence, indeed he might be a difficult person to engage in join business with because...when challenges arise this traits will manifest...and I quote ;

Later I am in a room with my cousin and I notice he has a box full of things he has purchased.  I notice the things he has brought are all for his baby and not for the other children in his care.  It is not a bad thing to me in the dream however I see that his focus is on his baby and not the others.


Hmmm I hope you understand better now?

Maybe because at time, pastor bankole speak in parable or use short words hence misinterpreted his message.


Bless u

 thank you for breaking it down a bit more in detail, it makes more sense now, will definitely be praying him.  Thank you much appreciated :)