[seekinghim1]

Hi Minister,

Please help me understand this short dream I remember upon waking recently

In the dream the man (whom was in previous dreams with white t-shirt)  he is angry at me.  He is angry towards me because his son is sick and he is blaming me.  I say to him "Maybe you should take your son home to rest"  but the man says "Its too late now he has your DNA.  The man also seemed to misunderstand and said to me "You cant just send something home when you cant handle it"  meaning I was trying to get rid of his son. He was also implying that I could not handle this so wanted it to go.  In the dream I remember thinking and feeling that was not what I meant and that I just wanted him to let his son get better.
In the dream my colleague was present and silent just watching us both.

I woke up really uncertain as to what this might mean but I am thinking this may be some sort of miscommunication that has not yet happened? Or is the son symbolic of his own frustration? I am not sure and I am not sure why this man would get upset with me. In real life I have a very good relationship with his son but hardly know him (the father).

Thank you kindly minister.

[ebankole]

I say to him "Maybe you should take your son home to rest"  but the man says "Its too late now he has your DNA.

Seems there is a very strong connection, mother-to-son like bond between you and this boy hence any attempt or frustration to loose this strong bond might result to misunderstanding between you and the boy's parents/father.(GOD)


He was also implying that I could not handle this so wanted it to go.  In the dream I remember thinking and feeling that was not what I meant and that I just wanted him to let his son get better.
In the dream my colleague was present and silent just watching us both.

You see? You don't want to distance yourself from that boy or break that bond now as any attempt will result to the boy falling sick and traumatise him.
He's so attached to you, so much that his father(&God) is quite conscious of it and hence has considered you his (without)mother.

Mind you, his father it is but represent the present and position of God in that dream.

The bible says :
â—„ Matthew 19:14 â–º
Jesus said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."

In summary, don't detach yourself from that boy yet not even when are having personal challenges as great reward await you,maritally and otherwise lest the lord won't be please with you.


Bless you.

[seekinghim1]

I say to him "Maybe you should take your son home to rest"  but the man says "Its too late now he has your DNA.

Seems there is a very strong connection, mother-to-son like bond between you and this boy hence any attempt or frustration to loose this strong bond might result to misunderstanding between you and the boy's parents/father.(GOD)


He was also implying that I could not handle this so wanted it to go.  In the dream I remember thinking and feeling that was not what I meant and that I just wanted him to let his son get better.
In the dream my colleague was present and silent just watching us both.

You see? You don't want to distance yourself from that boy or break that bond now as any attempt will result to the boy falling sick and traumatise him.
He's so attached to you, so much that his father(&God) is quite conscious of it and hence has considered you his (without)mother.

Mind you, his father it is but represent the present and position of God in that dream.

The bible says :
â—„ Matthew 19:14 â–º
Jesus said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."

In summary, don't detach yourself from that boy yet not even when are having personal challenges as great reward await you,maritally and otherwise lest the lord won't be please with you.


Bless you.

Thank you Minister,
Just to clarify - did you mean the father is symbolic of the Lord?  yes you confirmed what I felt inwardly as the night before this dream I felt I wanted to just avoid this whole situation - Would the Lord be really angry with me for stepping back? as This situation is complex and I am in an uncertain place in my life where I have been seeking the lord for my true purpose ie: my giftings and what he wants me to do

[ebankole]

Seekinghim1,

And I quote my last sentence,yesterday :

In summary, don't detach yourself from that boy yet not even when are having personal challenges as great reward await you,maritally and otherwise lest the lord won't be please with you.


Now, this is where his father (GOD) comes in,and the bible says -i quote :


â—„ Matthew 19:14 â–º
Jesus said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."


Seekinghim1, isn't it obvious that you faith, endurance and patient is been put to test?
Why not allow the lord to shape,discipline you through this child even though you are having personal challenges and trying to fix yourself up?

You see, to whom much is given? Much is expected.
You don't need to focus on the complexity of this issue at all. All you need do is go about it wisely and diligently-look out for him as space(his father) permits.
For once act foolish for God and pretend as if everything is fine with you-then watch and see how he'll, as a result of your obedient, turn things around, prepare and honour you.


Be strong. The lord is shaping you my dear.
This won't last, ok? If you can't impact lives and make people smile when challenges and storm overshadows you then you may not be fit to be consider "faithful,worthy".

You must learn to give your best when you are down. Believe me you? It will shape your strength and ability to handle challenges.

Isn't it amazing how pastor bankole is always there for you all,whether he's having a bad day, exhausted and/or down emotionally?
You see my dear that's the beauty of love and passion. Learn from me.

Bless you.

[seekinghim1]

Seekinghim1,

And I quote my last sentence,yesterday :

In summary, don't detach yourself from that boy yet not even when are having personal challenges as great reward await you,maritally and otherwise lest the lord won't be please with you.


Now, this is where his father (GOD) comes in,and the bible says -i quote :


â—„ Matthew 19:14 â–º
Jesus said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."


Seekinghim1, isn't it obvious that you faith, endurance and patient is been put to test?
Why not allow the lord to shape,discipline you through this child even though you are having personal challenges and trying to fix yourself up?

You see, to whom much is given? Much is expected.
You don't need to focus on the complexity of this issue at all. All you need do is go about it wisely and diligently-look out for him as space(his father) permits.
For once act foolish for God and pretend as if everything is fine with you-then watch and see how he'll, as a result of your obedient, turn things around, prepare and honour you.  


Be strong. The lord is shaping you my dear.
This won't last, ok? If you can't impact lives and make people smile when challenges and storm overshadows you then you may not be fit to be consider "faithful,worthy".

You must learn to give your best even when you are down. Believe me you? It will shape your strength and ability to handle challenges.

Isn't it amazing how pastor bankole is always there for you all,whether he's having a bad day, exhausted and/or down emotionally?
You see my dear that's the beauty of love and passion. Learn from me.

Bless you.

Yes Pastor you have been wonderful to answer so many requests for help and I thank you and the lord for leading me to your website, I have been very blessed indeed.  Thank you for your words always make sense and confirm whats in my heart.  I do love this boy very much as I do all the children in my care, and know that the lord has placed me at the right place in the right time to love and care for them all.  Thank you for encouraging my faith and reminding me of the Lords expectation of me.
Bless you